Tuesday, October 28, 2025
But why did this happen in the first place? Why did a 6 year-old little boy feel stupid to such a degree that it sticks with him 20 or 30 years later? In almost every case, that little boy had a mom who had her own emotional problems to the degree that his emotions and emotional connection and safety was 2nd or 3rd or even lower in the rank of importance to her, so he already felt the vulnerability of lacking that emotional connection and stability. Once that happens, it doesn't take much to wound him to a degree that it sticks with him for decades and remains the driving force behind the addiction.... Read More
Wednesday, September 17, 2025
Black and Red Photocentric Ebook Cover God created you for action and mission, not to be passive. Vegging on Netflix, binging on video games, and doom-scrolling as substitutes for porn...... Read More
Wednesday, September 10, 2025
There is one thing that nearly everyone from podcasters and writers to mental health professionals get completely wrong about porn addiction. Porn addiction is not about sex.... Read More
Wednesday, August 28, 2024
“I need your help,” Steven said. “I just don’t know how to get past this. I try and try and try to quit looking at gay porn and masturbating, and after about two weeks, I fall flat on my face and have to go to confession again. I don’t know what to do.”“Part of the problem is you think your unwanted same-sex attraction and your pornography addiction are one problem. They’re not."... Read More
Tuesday, August 20, 2024
This is where most people get stuck. They blame their younger selves for the pain they suffer today, for having made that unwise decision or done that stupid thing, then they hold a debt over the head of that younger self, a debt that cannot be repaid.... Read More
Tuesday, August 13, 2024
So for someone struggling with unwanted same-sex attraction, it may be more effective to stop the pornography and masturbation first. I know that’s a difficult feat. Here are some tips to help you get your head right, and make the work a bit easier for you:... Read More
Friday, August 09, 2024
There’s a dirty little secret in the counseling world, that they don’t want anyone to know. ... Read More
Thursday, August 08, 2024
There are many concerns for the man who struggles against unwanted same-sex attraction. One primary concern that is often an obsession is the question, “am I masculine enough?” These men often feel like outsiders...... Read More
Tuesday, August 06, 2024
Here's what you don't know about pornography and sexual addiction.... Read More
